A stepmother has turned into an internet sensation with an appalling post requesting guidance on the best way to ‘get rid’ of her 4-year-old stepdaughter.
The anonymous lady, who thought to be from the United States, shared the post with Instagram mentor @talkswithmee before it was re-posted on the CNTRL+ALT+DLT that Relationship Facebook group, where the lady was censured and compared to Cinderella’s insidious stepmother.
Clarifying the circumstance, the lady said she is seven months pregnant and engaged to a man who lost his wife when their daughter was born.
The post reads:
Subject: I want my fiancé to get rid of his 4 year old daughter.
Message: Hi @Talkswithmee I need some advice from the mommies on your page. My fiancé has a 4 year old daughter, her mother passed away when she was born. He’s been raising her on his own ever since he lost his wife. I am now in the picture and were are set to get married in 2022. I’m also 7 months pregnant with a precious little girl. I am not the stepmother type and I know I won’t treat his daughter the same way I will treat our child, to be quiet honest she gets on my damn nerves For one, the lil girl looks just like her mother and having her around constantly reminds my fiancé of his dead wife, second, she is very attached to her daddy and I’m afraid this is going to take away from my child’s bond with her father. I basically want to tell my fiancé to get rid of her, she can live with her grandparents or we can find her a nice family that’s looking to adopt a child. I don’t know how to approach the situation but I need to find a way to convince my fiancé to let her go. I promise I am not a bad person, I’m just trying to look out for my child and make sure she receives all of her daddy’s attention without having her “older sister” intervene. Please help!
She asserted the little girl is a ‘consistent’ token of her life partner’s late spouse and said she fears their bond will ‘fade’ from her baby’s relationship with him. Offering her stupid advice, she stated: She can live with her grandparents or we can find her a nice family that’s looking to adopt a child.’
Even after all this, the lady ended the message by insisting she is ‘not a bad person’. What the hell? She faced a backlash from the readers.
One said: This actually sounds like a fairytale… and she is the wicked step mother…. I hope she doesn’t know any huntsman!!
Another added: Evil. Shame on dad for not seeing the red flags and leaving her. I hope he protects his daughter.
A third one said: This is so disgusting I hope he found out about this before they got married.