A couple of days back, a TikTok user @nevadashareef asked a question from the parents on the platform. She needed them to disclose to one practice that they follow which different guardians have questioned over the years.
To this, one lady, named Cayce LaCorte, clarified how she discloses to her little girls that virginity doesn’t exist. It’s a cultural idea to put ladies under tension and to control them. In the video she explains the same:
It is a patriarchal concept used to control women and serves no purpose. Other than making women feel bad about ourselves.
She further added:
Just because some guy randomly sticks his penis in you at some point in your life does not change your worth, it does not change who you are, it doesn’t do anything other than it happened. Sex is important. It’s a big deal. It should always be a big deal. It has nothing to do with your first time…it’s just ridiculous. The whole concept is ridiculous.
She likewise addresses how different moms raise their concerns when they hear something like this. Also, the worry is whether Cayce’s girls will get ‘spoiled’. To this, Cayce properly says that she simply needs her girls to settle on educated choices and be good people.
I get a lot of crap from other moms saying, “Oh well, do you think that will make your daughters promiscuous? Don’t you think?” And I am like no, I am raising them to be good people and have solid foundations and make their own choices and make smart, intelligent choices. Not because some book says not to.
Cayce video was by more than 2,3 million people worldwide and still going viral. Netizens praise Cayce for her candid and honest video and despite the fact that she figured out how to change numerous guardians’ viewpoints in just 15 seconds.
Cayce is having 5 daughters belongs to different age groups. She doesn’t believe in having that ‘one big talk’ and slowly breaks down things to her daughters according to their ages.
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